Today i had my 1st scan. It confirms that i am in fact pregnant and contrary to my husband’s belief, that there is only one child in there. Our kid has arms and legs and a nose – as pointed out. I am hopeful its got the rest of the bits too. It waved at us today. It looks healthy with its little heart beating the speed of a Techno top ten track and it did a little wiggle too, perhaps to the beat of its own number one.
I have been getting a bit stressed with the house purchase mostly to do with the bank canceling my transfer to the solicitor of our portion of the sale. They said they thought it fraud, then required me to go to the bank to sort it out. I went, they said it had gone through, i find out 2 days before we need it that it didn’t. Now its too late to transfer the free way so i had to pay for the instant transfer. They gave me the run around locking me out of my internet banking and phone banking and i had to go to the branch twice. I’m sick of their shit and i am moving banks.
I also have to sort out things like buildings and contents insurance, all mortgage paper work, all money things, there is a lot to it when you have to do it all yerself. Hubby can’t help as he isn’t on any paperwork so no one will speak to him about it. I also need to sort out new car insurance and take my car in for an MOT. It’s all happening at once and i am becoming really drained and aggravated.
It’s just a good job i have the good thing, the baby to cheer me up. And i am so glad that i haven’t been sick, nauseous or really anything. I have been
busy lazy and i didn’t run my half marathon. After not training and needing the day to pack i thought better of it. I’m annoyed that i allowed myself to get to the point i wasn’t trained enough to even just run it – rather than race it – but whats done is done.
I’m getting back on the wagon next week. I am going to set myself days to go straight to the gym after work. As i will then be driving to and from work its best to just go straight to the gym. Its going to be getting dark soon after work and running outside alone isn’t an option in my mind. I plan to swim and run, perhaps some spin classes too. I need to, i think I’m happier when working out. It starts next week as Hubby leaves for America on Sunday and i will be alone for a month.
Just me and my bump.
And the house to unpack!